Female Samson?

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Be the reason someone
believes in good again.
In kind hearts, gentle words,
and souls that carry light.

Don’t let a harsh world
make you hard.
Your goodness is needed —
now more than ever.

Keep showing up with love.
It matters.

your day is blessed

*What's Your current relationship status !!*

In love & loved
👍🏽 In talking stage
Ghosted me
I’m the side piece
Still healing
We just broke up
Single & not searching
Secret crush
😮‍💨 Situationship
Love is a scam
🥹 I don’t even know

20 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO AS A WOMAN...!!!

1. Do not wear a vest or sleeveless top without shaving your armpits or without a bra underneath... No man, not even your husband, will like to see you that way.

2. Do not leave cheap nail polish to wear off on its own, there's a reason they sell nail polish remover...

3. If you can’t afford good quality weaves, don’t bother. Just pack your hair neatly.

4. Do not do artificial nails that make you look like a dragon queen, being simple is always sexy. Just try it once and you will love doing it always. Have you heard men talk about a lady being natural before? It's because they like natural women.

5. See-through leggings or a top used as a dress when you are out in public is a hell-to-the-no!

6. Never do things for a man with a hope of getting something in return, expectations are dangerous. Do it because you simply want to.

7. Never contradict what your man says in public.

8. Never stalk the man that left you for the other woman.

9. Do not share your best friend's personal life with every Tom, **** and Harry.

10. Women should never act on distress in relationships like checking your man’s phone, nagging him to death, and acting like a paranoid freak. You will simply release him to someone else by doing so.

11. Never dish out your entire family drama on a first date. The guy just wants to know about you.

12. Stop obsessing over your body. It’s good to eat healthy and work out but leave it at that.

13. Never over-accessorize. Stop looking like a Christmas tree.

14. Never leave home without lip-gloss, your phone and most of all your dignity.

15. Never leave your used sanitary towel in the toilet for the next person to see. Women please!

16. Never wear very high heels if you can’t do the Naomi Campbell walk. You look like a drunk grasshopper.

17. Never wear short skirts and low cut tops when off to an interview. You will create the wrong impression.

18. Never think you can threaten your man into submission. You simply get him irritated in the end.

19. Respect is reciprocal. You earn your man's respect if you respect him first. And finally,

20. Never wish to be like any other woman. There are others out there envying you for who you are... Be yourself!

There's a Grace that prospers!!!
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*CHILD DISCIPLINE*

There is a big lie going around today.Some parents say, “I don’t want my child to suffer like I did.”They say it with pride.They think it sounds like love.But they don’t know they are slowly destroying that child.

Because of that mindset, they refuse to correct the child.They don’t give the child chores.They don’t say “No.”They don’t allow the child to face consequences.
They say, “Let him rest, he’s just a child.”They say, “Let her enjoy life, she’s still young.”But they are not helping that child.
They are damaging the child.

If your child cannot sweep the house, how will they keep their own home clean tomorrow?If your child cannot wash plate, how will they survive when they leave your house?If your child cannot say “Good morning” to elders, how will they work with people in the office?
If your child cannot accept correction, how will they handle marriage or leadership?

The world is tough.Life is not always sweet.You will not always get what you want.
There will be days of pain.
There will be days of rejection.There will be moments of “No.”

So if your child cannot hear “No” now, what will happen when life says “No” to them tomorrow?They will break.They will fall.They will run away.Some will even commit suicide because they were never taught how to handle pressure.

Discipline is not wickedness.Correction is not hate.Chores are not punishment.They are training.They are tools.
They are preparation for life.

Your child must know how to clean, how to greet, how to wait, how to apologize, how to handle anger, how to respect people, and how to do hard things without complaining.

Don't make your child soft in the name of love.
Don't make your child lazy in the name of protection.
Don't remove discipline and expect them to succeed.
Don't raise them like kings and queens with no wisdom.

One day, you will grow old.
You will need your child to stand strong.
But if you didn’t train them, they will fall.
And both of you will suffer for it.

So stop saying, “I don’t want my child to suffer like I did.”
Let your new statement be, “I want my child to be stronger than I was.”
And that strength must start with discipline.
It must start with training.
It must start with responsibility.
It must start with you.

Grass eating colleague





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HOW TO HANDLE SEXUAL ATTRACTION IN COURTSHIP...

Of course, I had high chemistry for my fiance in courtship! This thing called love can "shack", seize your brain and scatter your logic!

It felt so warm, so electric and so hot being in love with Dewunmi and I ran after him as much a he ran after me. He loved me, all of me. His smiles always melt my heart and his high level of self control was a sexual turn on on its own.

I wanted his hug badly but he wouldn't budge. 5 years was exciting without sex because we did more talking, facing our academics, passing in flying colours and working out our goals.

Then we graduated and we both had our jobs and he would visit me. My tall, slim, handsome virgin dude would always visit me. When I couldn't handle the crazy urge to merge anymore, we got married and sex has been passionate IN MARRIAGE with him. The fact that he waited till marriage and sleeps with only me gets me turned on for him easily.

Here is the point:

1. SEXUAL ATTRACTION IS NORMAL IN COURTSHIP: If it is God's will, you will have chemistry for each other. It is the erotic love needed to fulfill God's commandment of "Be fruitful and multiply" in marriage. Don't kill yourself with guilt because you often feel like kissing, hugging and having sex with her (as long as you don't do it, no need to hang yourself with condemnation). I was once single. I felt what you are feeling. That crazy urge is part of the total package called love.

2. SET BOUNDARIES: Setting boundaries will help you stay in check. No visitation beyond 7 o clock, no hugging, no kissing, no pecking, no nothing that will stir your hormones and make you lose your brain. You must stay sexually pure in courtship. Setting boundaries will help you a lot.

3. BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER: Ovulation can sometimes jazz up your sexual desire making you lose control to something as simple as touch. Let him know the days you can't just see him talk less of touching. There are days as a man you know your libido is high, don't visit.

4. AVOID, FLIRTY, SEXY, MIDNIGHT CHATS: You will lose your sanity and get horny, the next time you see, you may land in bed and have sex with each other like crazy! Don't start what you can't finish and one day regret!

5. SET YOUR WEDDING DATE: If your sexual urge is getting unbearable, kindly set your wedding date and set yourself free. If you are still schooling, you might need to get a break from your courtship till you get your bearing and then resume.

Some singles might say, "What happens to self control?" Yes, you must have self control as a good born again Christian but courtship requires more than self control to keep your virginity/sexual purity. Setting boundaries is the key!

You can't be praying together on your bed on a cold rainy night and preach self control to each other. That is stupidity of the highest order! The bible says: "Can a man carry fire in his bossom and not be burnt?" Another passage says: "FLEE (run away) from all appearances of evil".

To keep your sanity in courtship, learn when to stay and when to run so you don't lose your sanity and come weeping you made a mistake.

May you not fall in Jesus' name.

Talking tartiest in football

*AVOIDING UNNECESSARY PRESSURE*

1. Put your kids in
schools you can afford
because expensive
schools don't
guarantee good
results. Just ensure
they attend a good
affordable school

2. Rent apartments you
can pay for
conveniently. Don’t live
in a house you struggle
to pay yearly.

3. Let’s plan our lives and
live within our means.
Save more and spend
less.

4. Some women buy food
for their children every
morning before going
to school or even for
the whole family, do
you know it’s cheaper
to cook at home?

5. Some people don’t
earn much, but have
DSTV at home, go for
GOTV and upgrade
when your income
upgrades. It’s still the
same CNN anyway!

6. Eat healthy meals and
protect your family
from mosquitoes to
avoid going to the
hospital always.

7. Take advantage of
food and fruits in
season, its cheaper
and you can be
creative to create
amazing meals.

8.Don’t copy your
neighbor’s lifestyle,
she earns well and her
husband is a ‘big
man’

9. Don’t follow trends,
wear clean well-
ironed clothes and
keep your hair neat.
You would still look
good.

10. Keep your circle
small, keep only
friends that have
senses!

11. Above all things, have
the fear of God, have
integrity, don’t be lazy
and be prayerful.

12. Planning is the key, if
you fail to plan, you
plan to FAIL.

13. Don't do more than
your budget this
Time, there is no
award given to best
family that wore an
expensive cloth for
the year

14.Don't be in
competition with
anyone...
The purpose of shoes
and clothes are to
make us smart and
good.

DON'T KILL YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU'RE LOVING SOMEONE.

You call them but they don’t pick up, they find your missed calls but they don’t call back.
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You text them but they never reply to any of your messages.
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You always have time for them but they are ever so busy for you, you want to meet them and have some mature talks with them but they are full of excuses.
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You do everything possible to make them happy but they don’t appreciate your effort, you introduced them to your friends and family but they have never introduced you to any important person in their life.
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You are so proud of them but they aren’t proud of you, you truly love them but you aren’t sure if they love you because they don’t show it, you want to spend your future with them but they don’t like to talk about future plans, you are doing everything you can to make the relationship work but they doing all their best to make it end.
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Then why are you with them? Why are you wasting your time and energy on them?
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Honestly you deserve someone better who will appreciate your effort and even return your love.

Stop wasting your time with that wrong person.
Get yourself together and move on. I know it isn’t easy, but if you know your worth, you’ll make it. Wake up today and stop suffering.

You are the best...

Happy weekend my people...let's GADA TO MAKE MORE MONEY

We are Yorùbá, we are Ọmọlúàbí, and more importantly, we are Olùkùmi.

You know what Olùkùmi means? It literally means "The friend that remains even when all others jump ship."